What percent??

hondab07 · 08-25-2010, 07:03 PM

I was just wondering, with all the guys here that love female wrestling and catfighting, what per cent of guys have actually told their wives or girlfriends of their love for this wonderfully sexy sport, or have actually told their ladies they would love to see them wrestle another woman?

If you did ask, what was her reply? And what were her objections? And did any of you get no objections- just an immediate, "OK, I will try it"

For those of you who have not disclosed your fem wrestling thoughts with your lady, why not? And, even though you have not brought it up to her, do you think she is aware of your interest?

It took me a few years to get my wife to try it, after I worked up the nerve to tell her and ask her. But, boy, was it ever worth the time and trouble. Maybe I can offer some tips, as my wife was not to thrilled with the idea when I asked her. But now, after several matches with a few other wives, she loves it, and is so glad that she has done it.

A good, honest discussion here may prove to be pretty informative and fun...and good therapy for some to get e few frustrations off their chests.

DavidHeisel · 08-26-2010, 01:18 AM

Good question. I've told every serious girlfriend or wife in hopes of her being open to the idea. It's been mixed results. Two were very open to it and one actually wrestled another girl for me with hair pulling, the other would have if I could have only convinced the other girl to do it. Two told me I was a freak and thought it was strange. One understood completely, but wasn't too open to the idea. The girls with objections basically thought I was being perverted and they would not participate in something like that. The ones that went for it understood why I would want to see it and were aware that it would please most guys. I have a girl right now that i am working on, she knows, she is open and she has a friend she would wrestle, but she isn't as gung-ho as I would like. I'm definitely interested in hearing how you got your wife to do it, I could probably learn something from you!

dungood · 08-26-2010, 07:51 PM

i told my missus it a long time to get the guts to tell her , at first she was quite shocked , but shes cool with it now , we even talk about it before well you know gets me well excited , never happened her fighting another woman in reality though in truth sounds wimpish but in reality i wouldnt want to see her hurt but the thought is sexy

hondab07 · 08-27-2010, 01:24 AM

Dungood, glad to hear that a little catfight talk between you and your lady gets things started for a good night of fun for you guys!

I just want to mention that I would never want my wife to get hurt doing this either. And I really hate to use the term "fight", becuase that has the implication (in my mind, anyway) of a street fighting type brawl. Never, ever would I want to see my wife, or any woman, in a fight like that where someone would stand a good chance of getting hurt. I would be the first to try and stop that type of fight.

I prefer to use the term "match", because that is what it is for us. We have found another couple or two, who are looking for the same thing as we are - namely, a safe, sane, respectful competition between the women. The ladies are friendly before and after the match, regardless of who "wins". Rules are safe, and agreed upon, and always followed.

My wife and the other two wives she has done this with, truly enjoy the matches, and look forward to the next time we can get together. And we have become the best of friends with the couples we have done this with.

I still say that done the right way, with the right people, this is a fabulous time for all. It surely has been for us!

dungood · 08-27-2010, 04:06 AM

sounds good , it just finding like minded people , that can't be easy

Hedsizzers · 08-27-2010, 06:23 AM

I don't have an 'other half' to tell, but everyone I know knows about my interest. Friends, family, work colleagues... and not just that I'm into f/f combat, but that I've been in around 400 mixed wrestling videos too. I've never really seen it as something that needs to be kept quiet meself, I don't see the big deal.

No-one I've told had ever been especially freaked out, it's more of a novelty if anything else. They've even seen some of my 'work'. It's all a matter of perspective.. to people into this stuff, they see one thing.. to my mates and colleagues, it's a funny video where some woman's shoving her boobies in me face - needless to say, you don't have to have a female fighting fetish to understand the appeal of that!

Cos it's such public knowledge, and cos I'm so blatant about it, anyone I've dated has already known so there's been no need for some big reveal. I've never had any desire to see any of my girlfriend's fight though, cos a) just because I'm into something, I don't expect them to be too and b) I ain't into real stuff or catfights anyway.

emily-jane kissed my ass · 08-27-2010, 09:27 AM

I'd like 2 make a point on this discussion if i may

wen Derron 1st told me he was in2 this i thought it was a bit weird. He used 2 wreslte his ex & he wanted me 2 try it. We never did.

we spolit up & he got wiv miss prudey pants & i thought it was a way of gettin bak at him 2 tell her. that sort of backfired at 1st coz they posted a topless pic of me on this forum behind my bak wivout me knowin.

i then told her i wld fight her coz i didnt think she'd agree 2 fight me so i thoguht he'd get the ache wiv her but i guess neither of us wanted 2 bak out of it so we did fight & as we all no I WON

Now wen she told me abt this forum afterwards & showed me the poll they'd put up about us I was livid. i only joined the site 2 embarass her & him coz of that but since then sum of u guys hav emailed me & most of u r so sweet so iver sort of stuck around (there r sum weirdos & guys that dont respect women but i ignore those). its sweet that all u seem 2 think ur doin smg wrong but it annoys me now wen Prudey calls u a `bunnch of perverts' coz there r 1 or 2 really nice guys on here that i no of & i'm sure there r others that i dont no.

the one thing that creeps me out a little bit is that u always want more. I sort of got introduced here against my knowledge, i like lookin at the photos coz it reminds me of my win & i agreed 2 pose 4 Darrren's pics 4 his poll wiv me against that blondie coz i thought that was fun. But i dont really want 2 fite anyone else but i get asked all the time `wen is ur next fite'. that does make me feel like a piece of meat sumtimes.

so if yr respectful 2 women & dont make it sound like smg that consumes yr evry day (wich i think it does 4 sum of u lol) i'm sure ur wife,g/f,whatever will b understandin

the reason i never wanted 2 wrestle wiv Derron was coz he sed his ex was gr8 at doin it so i didnt want 2 not b as good as her. so my one word of advice is play down yr ex, say she was rubbish at it, was one of the reasons u split & ur sure i could do better. We all like bein better then the ex - & we absolutely luv bein better then his current girlfriend

martin2057 · 09-05-2010, 10:13 PM

I told my new girlfriend today

hondab07 · 09-05-2010, 10:34 PM

What was her reply?

ROYALS22262 · 09-06-2010, 01:21 AM

With any significant other, you should never feel that you can't communicate or share interests, likes and dislikes. You should be able to be honest, real, open and sincere with each other. Most of the time, you will be glad that you did. It is all how it is presented too, do it with thought, tact, and in a non-arrogant, non-demanding manner. If the subject is discussed, it starts to be less weird, and less different, than most fear it is. Try it, you may like it, comes to mind. Like trying new sexual positions, you never know if you like it, till you actually do it! Then you tweak it, adjust, be flexible, and all of a sudden it is a win-win situation. It is OK to push boundaries a little, experiment a little, that adds fun, wonder and excitement! Treat each other with kindness and respect, and if you love each other, then you will try to turn the other on, within reason! Just be reasonable, and value your partners feelings as you do your own! Communication opens up so many wonderful adventures and possibilities! SO DON'T HOLD BACK OR BE SHY, GO FOR IT, YOU MOST LIKELY WILL BE VERY HAPPY THAT YOU DID!

08-25-2010, 07:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
hondab07 Showing some promise Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 10	What percent?? I was just wondering, with all the guys here that love female wrestling and catfighting, what per cent of guys have actually told their wives or girlfriends of their love for this wonderfully sexy sport, or have actually told their ladies they would love to see them wrestle another woman? If you did ask, what was her reply? And what were her objections? And did any of you get no objections- just an immediate, "OK, I will try it" For those of you who have not disclosed your fem wrestling thoughts with your lady, why not? And, even though you have not brought it up to her, do you think she is aware of your interest? It took me a few years to get my wife to try it, after I worked up the nerve to tell her and ask her. But, boy, was it ever worth the time and trouble. Maybe I can offer some tips, as my wife was not to thrilled with the idea when I asked her. But now, after several matches with a few other wives, she loves it, and is so glad that she has done it. A good, honest discussion here may prove to be pretty informative and fun...and good therapy for some to get e few frustrations off their chests. Last edited by hondab07; 08-25-2010 at 07:07 PM.

08-27-2010, 06:23 AM	#6 (permalink)
Hedsizzers Heavy hitter Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 72	I don't have an 'other half' to tell, but everyone I know knows about my interest. Friends, family, work colleagues... and not just that I'm into f/f combat, but that I've been in around 400 mixed wrestling videos too. I've never really seen it as something that needs to be kept quiet meself, I don't see the big deal. No-one I've told had ever been especially freaked out, it's more of a novelty if anything else. They've even seen some of my 'work'. It's all a matter of perspective.. to people into this stuff, they see one thing.. to my mates and colleagues, it's a funny video where some woman's shoving her boobies in me face - needless to say, you don't have to have a female fighting fetish to understand the appeal of that! Cos it's such public knowledge, and cos I'm so blatant about it, anyone I've dated has already known so there's been no need for some big reveal. I've never had any desire to see any of my girlfriend's fight though, cos a) just because I'm into something, I don't expect them to be too and b) I ain't into real stuff or catfights anyway. __________________ Come and visit my female fighting blog!

09-05-2010, 10:34 PM	#9 (permalink)
hondab07 Showing some promise Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 10	And ?? What was her reply?

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08-26-2010, 01:18 AM	#2 (permalink)
DavidHeisel Showing some promise Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 15	Good question. I've told every serious girlfriend or wife in hopes of her being open to the idea. It's been mixed results. Two were very open to it and one actually wrestled another girl for me with hair pulling, the other would have if I could have only convinced the other girl to do it. Two told me I was a freak and thought it was strange. One understood completely, but wasn't too open to the idea. The girls with objections basically thought I was being perverted and they would not participate in something like that. The ones that went for it understood why I would want to see it and were aware that it would please most guys. I have a girl right now that i am working on, she knows, she is open and she has a friend she would wrestle, but she isn't as gung-ho as I would like. I'm definitely interested in hearing how you got your wife to do it, I could probably learn something from you!

08-26-2010, 07:51 PM	#3 (permalink)
dungood Heavy hitter Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: uk Posts: 44	i told my missus it a long time to get the guts to tell her , at first she was quite shocked , but shes cool with it now , we even talk about it before well you know gets me well excited , never happened her fighting another woman in reality though in truth sounds wimpish but in reality i wouldnt want to see her hurt but the thought is sexy

08-27-2010, 01:24 AM	#4 (permalink)
hondab07 Showing some promise Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 10	Dungood, glad to hear that a little catfight talk between you and your lady gets things started for a good night of fun for you guys! I just want to mention that I would never want my wife to get hurt doing this either. And I really hate to use the term "fight", becuase that has the implication (in my mind, anyway) of a street fighting type brawl. Never, ever would I want to see my wife, or any woman, in a fight like that where someone would stand a good chance of getting hurt. I would be the first to try and stop that type of fight. I prefer to use the term "match", because that is what it is for us. We have found another couple or two, who are looking for the same thing as we are - namely, a safe, sane, respectful competition between the women. The ladies are friendly before and after the match, regardless of who "wins". Rules are safe, and agreed upon, and always followed. My wife and the other two wives she has done this with, truly enjoy the matches, and look forward to the next time we can get together. And we have become the best of friends with the couples we have done this with. I still say that done the right way, with the right people, this is a fabulous time for all. It surely has been for us!

08-27-2010, 04:06 AM	#5 (permalink)
dungood Heavy hitter Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: uk Posts: 44	sounds good , it just finding like minded people , that can't be easy

08-27-2010, 09:27 AM	#7 (permalink)
emily-jane kissed my ass Heavy hitter Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 21	I'd like 2 make a point on this discussion if i may wen Derron 1st told me he was in2 this i thought it was a bit weird. He used 2 wreslte his ex & he wanted me 2 try it. We never did. we spolit up & he got wiv miss prudey pants & i thought it was a way of gettin bak at him 2 tell her. that sort of backfired at 1st coz they posted a topless pic of me on this forum behind my bak wivout me knowin. i then told her i wld fight her coz i didnt think she'd agree 2 fight me so i thoguht he'd get the ache wiv her but i guess neither of us wanted 2 bak out of it so we did fight & as we all no I WON Now wen she told me abt this forum afterwards & showed me the poll they'd put up about us I was livid. i only joined the site 2 embarass her & him coz of that but since then sum of u guys hav emailed me & most of u r so sweet so iver sort of stuck around (there r sum weirdos & guys that dont respect women but i ignore those). its sweet that all u seem 2 think ur doin smg wrong but it annoys me now wen Prudey calls u a `bunnch of perverts' coz there r 1 or 2 really nice guys on here that i no of & i'm sure there r others that i dont no. the one thing that creeps me out a little bit is that u always want more. I sort of got introduced here against my knowledge, i like lookin at the photos coz it reminds me of my win & i agreed 2 pose 4 Darrren's pics 4 his poll wiv me against that blondie coz i thought that was fun. But i dont really want 2 fite anyone else but i get asked all the time `wen is ur next fite'. that does make me feel like a piece of meat sumtimes. so if yr respectful 2 women & dont make it sound like smg that consumes yr evry day (wich i think it does 4 sum of u lol) i'm sure ur wife,g/f,whatever will b understandin the reason i never wanted 2 wrestle wiv Derron was coz he sed his ex was gr8 at doin it so i didnt want 2 not b as good as her. so my one word of advice is play down yr ex, say she was rubbish at it, was one of the reasons u split & ur sure i could do better. We all like bein better then the ex - & we absolutely luv bein better then his current girlfriend

09-05-2010, 10:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
martin2057 Heavy hitter Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 31	I told my new girlfriend today

09-06-2010, 01:21 AM	#10 (permalink)
ROYALS22262 Heavy hitter Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 333	With any significant other, you should never feel that you can't communicate or share interests, likes and dislikes. You should be able to be honest, real, open and sincere with each other. Most of the time, you will be glad that you did. It is all how it is presented too, do it with thought, tact, and in a non-arrogant, non-demanding manner. If the subject is discussed, it starts to be less weird, and less different, than most fear it is. Try it, you may like it, comes to mind. Like trying new sexual positions, you never know if you like it, till you actually do it! Then you tweak it, adjust, be flexible, and all of a sudden it is a win-win situation. It is OK to push boundaries a little, experiment a little, that adds fun, wonder and excitement! Treat each other with kindness and respect, and if you love each other, then you will try to turn the other on, within reason! Just be reasonable, and value your partners feelings as you do your own! Communication opens up so many wonderful adventures and possibilities! SO DON'T HOLD BACK OR BE SHY, GO FOR IT, YOU MOST LIKELY WILL BE VERY HAPPY THAT YOU DID!